Be Of Service, not a Servant

My clients LOVE to be of service, it is part of their purpose & gives life meaning. 

The challenge here (everything has duality) can present as a barrier an Abundance Mindset: 

the belief that you need to be a 'servant' to do this. 

There is a difference. 

Being of service can be achieved from a powerful place of self-belief, healthy boundaries & a zest for life! (Abundance Mindset).

Or it can come from a belief that you must do everything yourself, work hard all the time, sacrifice your time, energy & peace & hang on external validation for proof of your worthiness. (Lack mindset). 

The latter is actually more common & I love to change that because it has been a critical part of my own transformation journey & that of my clients. 

The balance can be found in developing rock solid self-belief. 

𝐖𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐥𝐲 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬, 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐜𝐚𝐧 𝐝𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐟𝐨𝐥𝐥𝐨𝐰𝐢𝐧𝐠:

* Prioritise yourself, your health & your peace. 

* Act with healthy boundaries in place & say no when you need to. 

* Handle confrontation professionally with detachment. 

* Self-validate so there is no need to people please. 

* Value yourself & your time, energy & skills. 

* Go at the right pace, no rushing, no busy fool syndrome. 

* Allow & go with the flow, no impatience/force/push/struggle/control. 

* Care more about what you think of yourself than trying to control what other people think of you.

* Focus on the present moment, where all your power is, not worrying about the past or the future that hasn't happened yet. 

If this speaks to you, let's chat because FREEDOM awaits! 

Good Vibes, Amanda G 

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